For fear of being found out, she signed off her emails with the instructions ‘No reply’ or ‘You may respond’. As a travel writer, I was working abroad a great deal.Maybe I was dating a married woman because unconsciously it fitted in with my chaotic lifestyle, even though I longed for intimacy at the same time.We’re also living in a time where monogamy and the sanctity of marriage is becoming less and less recognized, and even worse, less revered.
He may find himself involved with a woman he only wants to have fun with, and end up with so much more.
What kept me together emotionally was knowing she was waiting in the wings. I would wait until her son finished school if that was what she wanted.
I would give up on having children of my own if it meant being with her.
For many men, there is just something about a married woman that is more attractive than anything else.
Maybe it’s the way that so many of them seem to convey a sense of self esteem or confidence in themselves and their situation.